Ooook this is a thought which every desperate single male can relate to. 
The scenario…

There is this particular girl which you like and your not sure whether she likes in you in the same way.  So what do you do? You end up playing the nice guy, and this is where it gets slippery because she will automatically go to you with all her problems and worries, which is good but this turns you into her own personal agony aunt.  You are no longer a ride-able option.  You are a good friend and nothing more. 

What ussually can happen;
A. You stay in the friend zone and you stay alone. 
B. You ride it out until either she’s desperate for some lovin or she realises that actually you are dating material after all
C. She gets interested in someone else and you naturally hate his guts, which makes you look like an arse whole, which pushes you out of the friend zone and into a less desired direction. 

I have found that getting stuck in the friend zone is so easily done and can be quite humiliating at the same time.  You enter it under false pretences because you think you are doing the right thing, by being the shoulder to cry on – and it turns out you just wasted your time. 

You can get out the friend zone, by learning from your mistakes and doing the same thing but with a different lady/man. 

I wonder, do woman have the same problem of ending up in the friend zone?

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